Oral Sex Techniques For Cunnilingus

The arousal of a woman with your mouth and tongue is called cunnilingus. This is one of the most useful sexual variations known to man and is certainly one of the most stimulating experiences known to a woman. Your tongue and mouth are very versatile. They can suck, moisten, and use varied caresses. You can use cunnilingus as a way of making sure that your partner is satisfied, as a way of arousing a woman before intercourse, or as a substitute for intercourse.

To introduce a woman to cunnilingus, go softly. Kiss the outer lips of her
vulva without inserting your tongue. With the tip of your tongue lick at her clitoris
very gently. Just use your tongue so you don't smother the clitoris and deaden the
sensation. Don't forget while you are licking that you can use your hands to reach
up and caress her breasts and her nipples. After you have stimulated the clitoris,
part her outer lips with your tongue and insert your stiffened tongue into her vagina. At this point, you can carefully hold the outer lips apart and run you’re the tip of your tongue back up to her clitoris. Lick it softly and steadily until she becomes more aroused. The persistent rhythmic licking of your tongue tip on her clitoris is what
will eventually bring her to an orgasm.

You can increase your partner's pleasure while you are licking her by inserting one
of your fingers into her vagina. This can deeply increase her pleasure.  Keep licking the clitoris for about 15 minutes. It takes a woman a lot longer to orgasm than a man. This is where stamina becomes very important.  Once she becomes very excited, its important to keep a steady consistent movement. This can assist her in reaching higher levels of pleasure.  A man might feel more comfortable performing oral sex on a women when he realizes that as long as she keeps herself clean and is healthy, licking her vaginal secretions is quite sanitary.

Common Cunnilingus Oral Sex Technique Mistakes

A common mistake many men make is licking the clitoris too soon, before proper teasing has been done. Remember to take your time and don’t just started licking a woman’s pussy until you have get her aroused by kissing the rest of her body first.

Cunnilingus Oral Sex Tips

A tongue in a hot warm mouth feels much better than one extended out as far as it will go. Also when your tongue is in your mouth you have much better control, dexterity and speed when called for. The one exception is when you are using teasing strokes in the beginning, but then you will move into whole mouth techniques.

Start with the teasing strokes, first and move on to indirect clitoral stimulation, finally move on to direct clitoral stimulation unless your partner is too sensitive for direct clitoral stimulation.  Before you actually touch her vulva the external vaginal area or pussy, use your warmest breath on the whole area. But don’t actually touch her pussy. Use your softest warmest breath on the external area only. Never blow into your partner’s vagina.

Using the tip of your tongue, lick the just outside her edge of her outer vagina with long strokes one at a time. Then move inward and lick directly on each lip tracing it up to her clitoral hood. Move inward again and lick between the inner and outer lips. With each stroke lick from the bottom of her pussy to the top and make as long a stroke as possible.

Lick her Vulva with a long lick like you would an ice cream cone. Make your tongue as wide as possible and lick from the bottom to the top with long broad strokes. Depending on how adventurous you are you can start your stroke at either the bottom of her pussy, below her pussy at the perineum, or just below her anus and lick her anus, perineum, and entire vulva. If you choose to do it this way start the stroke just below her anus with the tip of your tongue. When you get to the perineum start to widen your tongue and when you get to her vulva your tongue should be almost flat and cover as much of her vulva as possible.

Thrust your tongue in and out of her vaginal opening. You want to thrust in as far as possible. You can either press your mouth against her vulva and thrust in and out with your tongue. Or stick your tongue out as far as possible and make it is hard or ridged as possible and thrust in and out by moving your head forward and back.

Write the letters of the alphabet with your tongue on your partners Vulva. This will add a great variety of strokes and sensation. This is a teasing technique and should be done in the beginning.

Press your slightly open mouth on her vulva over her clitoris and swirl you’re the tip of your tongue around clitoris. Start slow and pay attention to your partner’s movements. After you have been at it for awhile you can use your fingers to pull back the clitoral hood and provide even more direct stimulation.

Take the very tip of your tongue and put it directly on her clitoris. And move your tongue very, very slowly in a very small circle, or left to right, up and down and see which one she responds to best. You are just barely moving your tongue. You can even stop sometimes but just keep your tongue there on her clit and she will start to move for you.

Flick the tip of her clitoris back and forth with the tip of your tongue. Start slow and go faster to see which speed she responds to most favorably. You can do this as long as she is enjoying it. But don’t it so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Switch techniques after a minute or two.

Slowly take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck it and knead it with your tongue, lips and mouth.

Do the suck as outlined above, then when the clitoris is in your mouth flick it back and forth and up and down with your tongue. Start slow and go faster if she responds well. You can do this as long as she is enjoying it. But don’t do it so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Switch techniques after a minute or two.

Now that her clitoris and vulva are wet, if you blow on it with a very soft cool stream of air from your mouth it will provide a cool sensation on her clitoris do this for 15 seconds. After you do this immediately follow up with the suck & flick, your warm mouth will very good to her right after the sensation of the cool breath.

Continue to stimulate your partner using the techniques you have just learned. You can bring your partner to orgasm several times if you desire. Most women may need a short break between orgasms. So after you have given her an orgasm wait 30-90 seconds before you resume stimulation. During this period you can come up for air and kiss her on the lips or stay down between her legs and kiss lick and suck on her inner thighs.

If she starts pushing her pussy against your mouth harder that means she wants more and is in enjoying it. If she pulls away she may be too sensitive or you may be providing too direct stimulation too soon. You can continue to use other techniques or stay with this one. When you find a techniques the really drives her wild stick with it! You must learn how to read her movements, her breathing and her sounds.

You can add more direct stimulation to any of the techniques above by pulling the clitoral hood back and stimulating the exposed clitoris directly. You do this by gently pulling back the skin covering her clitoris with your thumb or finger.

Ask your partner what she likes best and how you can bring her the greatest pleasure.

Positions For Great Cunnilingus Oral Sex

Sitting On Your Face Facing Away - This position allows you with easy access to her clitoris and to her anus for oral anal stimulation. You can also reach around a massage her buttocks or add anal stimulation with your fingers.

Between her Legs Over Your Shoulders - There are many variations to this basic position, but they all have in common your position of being between her legs. And with almost any of those positions where you are between her legs you can provide great clitoral stimulation, and add vaginal or G-spot stimulation with your fingers.

Her Legs Bent Back To Her Chest - This is a great position to do the ice cream lick technique. As you have very easy access to her perineum and anus if you desire. Also good for the tongue thrusting technique.

Woman On Knees You from Behind - This position and the variation where the woman is standing and bending over are favorites among ass men. You get full view of her beautiful ass and pussy and provide oral stimulation of all kinds to her clitoris and or the anus as well as add stimulation with your hand a great technique is to stimulate
her clitoris with your thumb while your fingers stimulate her g-spot, and you stimulate her anus with your mouth and tongue.

Oral Sex Techniques For Fellatio

Oral sex can be one of the highest expressions of love that can be exchanged between two people. Hopefully this information will help you to break down any barriers which you might have that would prevent you from expressing your love in this way and from receiving a reciprocation from your male companion. First things first. Look at the cock. I do not mean a cursory glance not a hurried, surreptitious examination. Take enough time that you convince your companion that some kind of treat is in store for him provided he will allow you to do with him, and particularly with his cock, exactly what you want. Place him flat on his back on your bed, in a well lighted room. Take his cock in your hand and look at it. He probably will not have the will power to stay soft, but then again you are worshipping his very essence. Few men can stay soft under these circumstances, when it is apparent that the person looking at his cock is worshipping.

When you first start to touch him, his cock will become hard and be in a state
where your examination will be meaningful. Wouldn't it be nice if going to the
doctor for an examination was as enriching. The cock must be hard if you are to be able to note the important parts-those parts sensitive to stimulation by your lips and tongue.  The first thing you will note is whether or not he is circumcised. Circumcision is not universally practiced: there are advantages and disadvantages to penises in both conditions from the standpoint of providing oral caresses that bring the highest
kind of delight to your man.

Next take a close look at the shaft of the penis itself. There is a bulbous part of the
organ near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft, which is often
called the head. Technically this is the glans penis (comes from the Latin glans
which means acorn. Look at it closely; does kind of look like an acorn doesn't it?)
The outside perimeter of the glans penis is the corona. This joins the head to the
shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. It is toward this ridge that you
will direct most of your attention when you are giving head. Follow this ridge
around to the underside of the penis. You know that I like to call it the underbelly. I
am particularly fond of the underbelly.

You will notice a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular circle come
together. If your partner is not circumcised, this will also be the point where the
foreskin is attached. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire
body, and it is possible to bring your partner to climax simply by gently tapping the
tip of your tongue directly on it. Spend time caressing the glans and those areas
immediately surrounding it.

Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not have many nerve
endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of
stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the exclusion of
the glans penis itself. It always amazes me to note the number of confirmed
cocksuckers who believe that sucking up and down on the shaft will get the guy
off. That's not it folks! If it works it is because the back of your throat is playing
tricks on his glans penis. Your throat is giving head to his head.

Beneath the shaft are the testicles (balls, jewels, call them what you like, but let's
not ignore their significance). The testicles are extremely sensitive to pain and are
not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular degree. Not
true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right kind of
attention to the balls.

Now lets go back to the shaft of the matter. The opening in the tip of the glans
penis is the meatus. Here is where the cum spurts. There are other parts of a man's body which respond with alacrity to oral stimulation.

Learn its areas of special sensitivity completely and be ready to apply your knowledge to his body with your tongue and with your lips when you bend your loving head over his cock. There is nothing that you can do which more clearly shows your love for him than the worship you can provide his cock.

Positions For Great Fellatio Oral Sex

Face Missionary Oral Sex Position  – In this position the woman lies on her back and the man assumes the missionary position but adjusted forward so as to copulate with his penis in his woman's mouth, usually to achieve deep throat penetration. The woman's head may or may not be rested on a pillow.

Head Back or Upsidedown Face Position – The man stands or crouches at the edge of the bed facing the bed, while the woman lies on the bed with his or her head hanging over the edge of the bed backward. The man inserts his penis into the woman's mouth and begins copulating slowly, usually to achieve deep throat penetration.

Hanging For Head Oral Sex Position – The man hangs from a pull-up bar by his hands while woman performs fellatio on him. The idea here is that while the pain in the hanging man's arms intensifies, so does the general pleasure and orgasm he receives from fellatio.

Sitting Down to Eat – The man stands in front of and facing the woman while she  sits, in a chair or on the edge of a bed or bathtub and bends forward to perform fellatio on him.

Standard Face Oral Sex Technique – The man places one or both of his hands behind his partner's head to brace it while he copulates into his partner's mouth, usually to achieve deep throat penetration.

Back Handspring Meets Fellatio Technique – The man and woman stand facing the same direction with the woman in front of man; she bends backwards until her mouth meets his penis; for balance and leverage she wraps her arms around him and holds the cheeks of his buttocks.