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Oral Sex Techniques For Cunnilingus
The
arousal of a woman with your mouth and tongue is called cunnilingus.
This is one of the most useful sexual variations known to man and
is certainly one of the most stimulating
experiences known to a woman. Your tongue and mouth are very
versatile. They can suck, moisten, and use varied caresses. You
can use cunnilingus as a way of making
sure that your partner is satisfied, as a way of
arousing a woman before intercourse, or as a substitute for
intercourse.
To introduce a woman to cunnilingus, go softly. Kiss the outer
lips of her
vulva without inserting your tongue. With the tip of your tongue
lick at her clitoris
very gently. Just use your tongue so you don't smother the clitoris and
deaden the
sensation. Don't forget while you are licking that you can use your
hands to reach
up and caress her breasts and her nipples. After you have stimulated the
clitoris,
part her outer lips with your tongue and insert your stiffened tongue
into her vagina. At this point, you can
carefully hold the outer lips apart and run you’re the tip of your
tongue back up to her clitoris. Lick it softly and steadily until she
becomes more aroused. The persistent rhythmic
licking of your tongue tip on her clitoris is what
will eventually bring her to an orgasm.
You can increase your partner's pleasure while you are licking her by
inserting one
of your fingers into her vagina. This can deeply increase her pleasure.
Keep licking the clitoris for about 15 minutes. It takes a woman
a lot longer to orgasm than a man. This is
where stamina becomes very important.
Once she becomes very excited, its important to keep a steady consistent
movement. This can assist her in reaching higher levels of
pleasure. A man might feel more
comfortable performing oral sex on a women when he
realizes that as long as she keeps herself clean and is healthy,
licking her vaginal secretions is quite
sanitary.
Common Cunnilingus Oral Sex
Technique Mistakes
A common mistake many
men make is licking the clitoris too soon, before proper teasing has
been done. Remember to take your time and don’t just started licking a
woman’s pussy until you have get her aroused by kissing the rest of her
body first.
Cunnilingus Oral Sex Tips
A tongue in a hot warm
mouth feels much better than one extended out as far as it will go. Also
when your tongue is in your mouth you have much better control,
dexterity and speed when called for. The one exception is when
you are using teasing strokes in the beginning, but then you will move
into whole mouth techniques.
Start with the teasing strokes, first and move on to indirect clitoral
stimulation, finally move on to direct clitoral stimulation unless your
partner is too sensitive for direct clitoral stimulation.
Before you actually touch her vulva the external vaginal area or
pussy, use your warmest breath on the whole area. But don’t actually
touch her pussy. Use your softest warmest breath on the external area
only. Never blow into your partner’s vagina.
Using the tip of your tongue, lick the just outside her edge of her
outer vagina with long strokes one at a time. Then move inward and lick
directly on each lip tracing it up to her clitoral hood. Move inward
again and lick between the inner and outer lips. With each stroke lick
from the bottom of her pussy to the top and make as long a stroke as
possible.
Lick her Vulva with a long lick like you would an ice cream cone. Make
your tongue as wide as possible and lick from the bottom to the top with
long broad strokes. Depending on how adventurous you are you can start
your stroke at either the bottom of her pussy, below her pussy at the
perineum, or just below her anus and lick her anus, perineum, and entire
vulva. If you choose to do it this way start the stroke just below her
anus with the tip of your tongue. When you get to the perineum start to
widen your tongue and when you get to her vulva your tongue should be
almost flat and cover as much of her vulva as possible.
Thrust your tongue in and out of her vaginal opening. You want to thrust
in as far as possible. You can either press your mouth against her vulva
and thrust in and out with your tongue. Or stick your tongue out as far
as possible and make it is hard or ridged as possible and thrust in and
out by moving your head forward and back.
Write the letters of the alphabet with your tongue on your partners
Vulva. This will add a great variety of strokes and sensation. This is a
teasing technique and should be done in the beginning.
Press your slightly open mouth on her vulva over her clitoris and swirl
you’re the tip of your tongue around clitoris. Start slow and pay
attention to your partner’s movements. After you have been at it for
awhile you can use your fingers to pull back the clitoral hood and
provide even more direct stimulation.
Take the very tip of your tongue and put it directly on her clitoris.
And move your tongue very, very slowly in a very small circle, or left
to right, up and down and see which one she responds to best. You are
just barely moving your tongue. You can even stop sometimes but just
keep your tongue there on her clit and she will start to move for you.
Flick the tip of her clitoris back and forth with the tip of your
tongue. Start slow and go faster to see which speed she responds to most
favorably. You can do this as long as she is enjoying it. But don’t it
so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Switch techniques after
a minute or two.
Slowly take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck it and knead it
with your tongue, lips and mouth.
Do the suck as outlined above, then when the clitoris is in your mouth
flick it back and forth and up and down with your tongue. Start slow and
go faster if she responds well. You can do this as long as she is
enjoying it. But don’t do it so long that she gets bored with the
sensation. Switch techniques after a minute or two.
Now that her clitoris and vulva are wet, if you blow on it with a very
soft cool stream of air from your mouth it will provide a cool sensation
on her clitoris do this for 15 seconds. After you do this immediately
follow up with the suck & flick, your warm mouth will very good to her
right after the sensation of the cool breath.
Continue to stimulate your partner using the techniques you have just
learned. You can bring your partner to orgasm several times if you
desire. Most women may need a short break between orgasms. So after you
have given her an orgasm wait 30-90 seconds before you resume
stimulation. During this period you can come up for air and kiss her on
the lips or stay down between her legs and kiss lick and suck on her
inner thighs.
If she starts pushing her pussy against your mouth harder that means she
wants more and is in enjoying it. If she pulls away she may be too
sensitive or you may be providing too direct stimulation too soon. You
can continue to use other techniques or stay with this one. When you
find a techniques the really drives her wild stick with it! You must
learn how to read her movements, her breathing and her sounds.
You can add more direct stimulation to any of the techniques above by
pulling the clitoral hood back and stimulating the exposed clitoris
directly. You do this by gently pulling back the skin covering her
clitoris with your thumb or finger.
Ask your partner what she likes best and how you can bring her the
greatest pleasure.
Positions For Great
Cunnilingus Oral Sex
Sitting On Your Face Facing Away
- This position allows you with easy access to her clitoris and
to her anus for oral anal stimulation. You can also reach around a
massage her buttocks or add anal stimulation with your fingers.
Between her Legs Over Your Shoulders
- There are many variations to this basic position, but they all have in
common your position of being between her legs. And with almost
any of those positions where you are between her legs you can provide
great clitoral stimulation, and add vaginal or G-spot stimulation with
your fingers.
Her Legs Bent Back To Her Chest -
This is a great position to do the ice
cream lick
technique. As you have very easy access to her
perineum and anus if you desire. Also good for the tongue
thrusting technique.
Woman On Knees You from Behind -
This position and the variation where the woman is standing and
bending over are favorites among ass men. You get full view of her
beautiful ass and pussy and provide oral stimulation of all kinds to her
clitoris and or the
anus as well as add stimulation with your hand a great technique is to
stimulate
her clitoris with your thumb while your fingers stimulate her
g-spot, and you stimulate her anus with your
mouth and tongue.
Oral Sex Techniques For
Fellatio
Oral
sex can be one of the highest expressions of love that can be
exchanged between two people. Hopefully this
information will help you to break down any barriers which you might
have that would prevent you from expressing your love in this way and
from receiving a reciprocation from your male companion. First things
first. Look at the cock. I do not mean a cursory glance not a hurried,
surreptitious examination. Take enough time that you convince your
companion that some kind of treat is in store for him provided he will
allow you to do with him, and particularly with his cock, exactly what
you want. Place him flat on his back on your bed, in a well lighted
room. Take his cock in your hand and look at it. He probably will not
have the will power to stay soft, but then
again you are worshipping his very essence. Few men can stay soft under
these circumstances, when it is apparent that the person looking
at his cock is worshipping.
When you first start to touch him, his cock will become hard and be in a
state
where your examination will be meaningful. Wouldn't it be nice if going
to the
doctor for an examination was as enriching. The cock must be hard if you
are to be able to note the important parts-those parts sensitive to
stimulation by your lips and tongue. The
first thing you will note is whether or not he is circumcised.
Circumcision is not universally practiced:
there are advantages and disadvantages to penises in both
conditions from the standpoint of providing oral caresses that
bring the highest
kind of delight to your man.
Next take a close look at the shaft of the penis itself. There is a
bulbous part of the
organ near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft,
which is often
called the head. Technically this is the glans penis (comes from the
Latin glans
which means acorn. Look at it closely; does kind of look like an acorn
doesn't it?)
The outside perimeter of the glans penis is the corona. This joins the
head to the
shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. It is toward this
ridge that you
will direct most of your attention when you are giving head. Follow this
ridge
around to the underside of the penis. You know that I like to call it
the underbelly. I
am particularly fond of the underbelly.
You will notice a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular
circle come
together. If your partner is not circumcised, this will also be the
point where the
foreskin is attached. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot
on his entire
body, and it is possible to bring your partner to climax simply by
gently tapping the
tip of your tongue directly on it. Spend time caressing the glans and
those areas
immediately surrounding it.
Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not have
many nerve
endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of
stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the
exclusion of
the glans penis itself. It always amazes me to note the number of
confirmed
cocksuckers who believe that sucking up and down on the shaft will get
the guy
off. That's not it folks! If it works it is because the back of your
throat is playing
tricks on his glans penis. Your throat is giving head to his head.
Beneath the shaft are the testicles (balls, jewels, call them what you
like, but let's
not ignore their significance). The testicles are extremely sensitive to
pain and are
not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular
degree. Not
true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right
kind of
attention to the balls.
Now lets go back to the shaft of the matter. The opening in the tip of
the glans
penis is the meatus. Here is where the cum spurts. There are other parts
of a man's body which respond with alacrity to oral stimulation.
Learn its areas of special sensitivity completely and be ready to apply
your knowledge to his body with your tongue and with your lips when you
bend your loving head over his cock. There is nothing that you can do
which more clearly shows your love for him than the worship you can
provide his cock.
Positions For Great Fellatio
Oral Sex
Face Missionary
Oral Sex Position –
In this position the woman lies on her back and the
man assumes the missionary position but adjusted forward so as to
copulate with his penis in his woman's mouth,
usually to achieve deep throat penetration. The woman's
head may or may not be rested on a pillow.
Head Back or Upsidedown
Face Position
– The man stands or crouches at the edge of
the bed facing the bed, while the woman lies
on the bed with his or her head hanging over the edge of the bed
backward. The man inserts his penis into the woman's
mouth and begins copulating slowly, usually to achieve deep throat
penetration.
Hanging For Head
Oral Sex Position –
The man hangs from a pull-up bar by his hands
while woman performs fellatio on him. The idea
here is that while the pain in the hanging man's arms intensifies, so
does the general pleasure and orgasm he receives from fellatio.
Sitting Down to
Eat –
The man stands in front of and facing
the woman while she
sits, in a chair or on the edge of a bed or bathtub and bends forward to
perform fellatio on him.
Standard Face Oral
Sex Technique
– The man
places one or both of his hands behind his partner's head to brace it
while he copulates into his partner's mouth, usually to achieve deep
throat penetration.
Back Handspring Meets
Fellatio Technique
– The man and woman
stand facing the same direction with
the woman in front of man; she bends backwards
until her mouth meets his penis; for balance and leverage she wraps her
arms around him and holds the cheeks of his buttocks.
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